How Deep Is Your Love?

Patti Conklin • February 10, 2025

Exploring Emotions, Self-Care, and Healing

A red rose symbolizing love

Love isn’t just about how we show up for others—it’s also about how we show up for ourselves.


We often ask, How deep is your love? As in, how deep does it extend to others; but rarely do we stop to reflect on what that means when it comes to self-care, emotional well-being, and inner healing.


In a world where emotions are often pushed aside or buried under to-do lists and responsibilities, we forget to ask ourselves: Am I truly taking care of my well-being? Am I really loving myself? The answer to that question goes beyond surface-level self-care. It’s about facing our emotions, honoring them, and giving ourselves the space to heal.


How Do We Face Our Emotions?


Emotions aren’t just fleeting feelings; they are energy in motion. 


When left unprocessed, they can manifest as stress, anxiety, physical discomfort, or even dis-ease and illness. Society seems to teach us to either suppress emotions or react impulsively to them, but there’s another way—one that brings balance and healing.


1. Acknowledge Without Judgment 

The first step in facing emotions is acknowledging them without labeling them as “good” or “bad.” Feelings are simply signals from our inner world, guiding us toward understanding ourselves better. Instead of saying, I shouldn’t feel this way, rather ask, What is this feeling trying to tell me?


2. Create Space for Reflection 

When was the last time you sat with your emotions instead of distracting yourself from them? Reflection can take many forms—journaling, meditation, or even simply taking a quiet walk. Allowing yourself to process emotions prevents them from becoming bottled up energy that later surfaces as stress or burnout.


3. Express and Release 

Whether through talking to a trusted friend, engaging in creative expression, or seeking energy healing, releasing emotions in a safe and constructive way is key to emotional health. Bottled-up feelings don’t disappear; they linger in the body and energy field until they are acknowledged and released.


The Connection Between Emotions and Energy Healing


As an energy healer, I see firsthand how unprocessed emotions create energetic blockages that affect overall well-being. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself, energy healing can help realign your system and restore balance. It’s not about bypassing emotions but rather working through them with intention and care.


This month, in the spirit of love—both for yourself and those around you—I’m offering 20% off my half-hour, one-hour, and three-hour one-on-one energy healing sessions to help you reconnect, recharge, and realign.


3 Transformative Sessions to Deepen Your Self-Care


  1. Half-Hour Energy Healing Session
    Perfect for a quick reset, this session focuses on clearing immediate energy blockages, restoring balance, and grounding your emotions. If you’ve been feeling off but don’t have much time, this is an effective way to shift your energy.
  2. One-Hour Energy Healing Session
    A more in-depth experience, this session allows for deeper emotional release and energy realignment. Whether you’re dealing with stress, grief, or general imbalance, this is a powerful way to reconnect with yourself.
  3. Three-Hour Intensive Healing Session
    This is for those who are truly ready to dive deep. We’ll work through past traumas, emotional patterns, and energy blocks that may have been holding you back. It’s a transformative session that helps you release what no longer serves you and step into a more aligned version of yourself.


How Deep Is Your Love—For Yourself?


Loving yourself isn’t just about treating yourself to nice things (though that’s lovely too). It’s about honoring your emotions, listening to your body, and making space for healing. When we show up for ourselves in this way, we naturally show up more fully for others.


So, if you’ve been feeling out of sync, overwhelmed, or simply in need of a reset, take this as your sign. From now until the end of February, use code LOVE20 at checkout for 20% off your session—because real love starts with you.


Let’s go deep. Let’s heal. Let’s reconnect. 💙

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