What if Your Divine is My Divine?
Patti Conklin • November 10, 2016
Could it be different for each of us?
WHAT IF we are all communicating with, worshiping, taking our directions from and living our lives as directed by the same Divine?
IT JUST LOOKS DIFFERENT AMONG US!
That your Divine is my Divine, and the same Divine is directing us all in the same way –
to raise up the human spirit,
to love our neighbors,
to extend a hand.
We are humans, not perfect and always given opportunities to learn and grow.
WHAT IF our differences in the way we see and worship our Divine is really the result of our human interpretation, our human influence, our human experience? And what if the same Divine is actually in the hearts of us all, leading everyone in their own direction of differences, and that Divine is doing it for a purpose – to shine a Divine light onto us all, so we can learn the lesson of Pure Unconditional Love for each other?
Because only when we set aside our egos will we be able to learn this lesson. Only then will we truly be able to know Unconditional Love. Only then are we able to unconditionally love ourselves and others in a way that helps all and hurts none.
WHAT IF we are worshiping the same Divine, it just looks different among us?
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