Preparing for the New School Year
Patti Conklin • August 2, 2016
Set your little scholar up for success!
The start of a new school year is right around the corner! Routine creates balance for children and family, and optimal success for learning. Now is the perfect time to refresh and set necessary school routines. We all know what happens when we wait until the night before school begins! The stark reality is that most children and families need two weeks for routines to become natural and balanced. Here are a few of my recommendations that will help all have a successful first day.
Establish sleep and morning routines two weeks before school begins. This goes for parents too!
Discuss with your children and set their “homework routine” to include:
Where they will put their homework when they get home
The time and location for doing homework
Parents will review all completed homework
Where do they put their completed and checked homework so it is ready to go back to school the next day?
**Parents/Guardians, just as your children have responsibilities, you are responsible for assisting with and checking their completed homework. Adults that are involved with their child’s education results in children being successful in school! Homework time is also a great opportunity to “check in” with your child.
Securing school supplies early helps build excitement for your child’s first day of school. Your school principal and counselor are always available to assist those who are challenged with obtaining supplies. There are many resources eager to help!
Most importantly. give your children positive messages about school, “It’s going to be a great year. I’m so excited for you this year.” are great words of encouragement. Children are sponges, they take in everything we say and are always listening! Be positive and empathize with their fears but redirect in a positive way.
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